transformative listening
A whole new world is possible.
It starts with you.
Transformative Listening is a practice that proves something most of us have forgotten:
When difficult emotions are truly felt in the presence of loving attention, they transform.Into aliveness. Into connection. Into hope. Into joy.Not through years of therapy or fixing. Just through being fully present while someone feels what needs to be felt.
This is how pain stops running our lives. And our world.
When we learn to release what we're carrying instead of acting it out, everything shifts.Relationships heal. Communities thrive. Destructive patterns unravel and what's left is our true nature: loving, cooperative, and fully alive.We're building a world where this is normal.Where anyone can turn to a friend, a partner, a neighbor for this kind of support.It starts with two people. And it can change the whole world.
Transformational Couple's Coaching with Julia & Ilya
Begin here. Together.
We work privately with committed couples, offering high-touch relationship coaching combined with advanced training in Transformative Listening.This is deep work for couples who want something radically different for their relationship.
The New Paradigm Partnership
Imagine...
The fights that feel like they’re tearing you apart become the very moments that bring you closer.
You discover intimacy beyond what most people think is possible in a relationship.
You heal generations of pain and transform what you pass on to the future.
Your relationship stops being something you manage and becomes what fuels you—so you can both show up fully alive in your lives, your work, and the world.We bring this work as partners and parents, grounded in lived experience as well as years of relational and therapeutic practice.
new website
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This work has been developed through decades of intensive professional and relational practice. We're now formalizing it, so it can be taught, practiced, and carried beyond private work.We're building this site to support the next phase. Live spring 2026.